my advice now that i'm a graduating senior... looking back i just wanted to tell myself - guys are not that hard to come by. it's easy to get a guy to like you, so just put yourself out there.
on the other hand, i wish i also knew to stay away from graduate students! not because they're grad students and they're older... but simply because just because they are older doesn't mean they are more mature and more stable.
Haha.
Your sentiment about grad students applies to men any age!
But, I actually appreciate the fact that some haven't become too serious in their old(er) age. I just wish I could find a good fun/mature combo.
I guess that's just a taste of what awaits you after college. @Dorky is right. Don't spend too much time fretting over boys in college. There's too much other fun stuff to do.
See what you have to look forward to??
posted 2 years ago by Mary Rambin
I liked the idea of TMI weekly and you're all really pretty but I get nothing out of it.
When are you actually going to start talking about Life, Tech and Style? all I've seen so far is cupcakes, teenage problems, cake, ex-boyfriends, more of julias cupcakes, ridiculously girlie stuff, and...astrology?
I'm sorry im coming across so rudely, but as a female I'm mad and really embarrassed that this is all you can bring us.
im only watching because you're all pretty. thats sad.
im going stuff myself with pretty cupcakes now as im so fustrated.
You girls should have people on the show that ARE happy in a relationship (married, living together) and how they got there.
That would be a more appropriate topic for your age group :)
Please, NO chats on how awesome it is to be in a happy relationship. Are there people who want to hear married people explain how content they are? I think not. Isn't there a website called STFUMarrieds to illustrate this point?
posted 2 years ago by Kat LALA
Actually, I think Alexis has a point. We focus too much on being single, but I know more than a handful of girls my age that are happily tied down (in a serious relationship or married). And no, they're all not from Houston. Plenty of my friends in NYC and LA are in LONG and healthy relationships.
Here is my tried and true advice based on wasting so much of my time in college chasing after boys: Do not seriously date in college. At all. Ever. College creates a bubble that is not like the real world whatsoever and gives folks the opportunity to act as immature as they possibly can during their 4, 5, ....6 years there. It's not reality. It's nearly impossible to find a mature dude there (unless he's in grad school, and even then he's completely focused on his studies) unless the guy is really boring.
There is so much else to explore in college while you have that safety net! Enjoy it! I completely regret wasting that precious time dating for this very reason. Men undergrads are not afraid of this time of adventure, which is why some choose to lie and cheat to get as many women in bed as possible. They're just having what they call fun!
So, find good lays and don't let things get complicated. ;-) Be in complete control. Men will find it sexy and be in awe of you. And you will find that you deserve way better than some lame, drunk college kid. Have FUN! See boys as fun toys! Yay!
It's funny that Meghan didn't date in college but wishes she did because I envy her for that! Really and truly, you didn't miss much.
Is your target audience primarily high school girls? One week you have a wine episode and the next week it's horoscopes and college dating advice. Can one of you please clarify what your target age group is? It's really confusing to see your topics meander all over the place.
Sarina you are right, we do meander. I understand the frustration. It can be confusing. But when you have 3 different women discussing you're going to do that a bit. Forgive us! But to explain this specific topic- A viewer wrote in and asked for this topic. She's in college so yes, college girls are part of our audience. So are women who work and maybe want a break from their day. So are some teenage girls. And yes, gay men. We have a lot of different people we're trying to please. Including ourselves:
Mary loves wine. Julia doesn't. Julia likes astrology and finds it interesting. Mary doesn't. I could talk about iPhone apps and cloud computing all day. But that might bore you.
So what do you want us to talk about? Comment back with some ideas and we'll shoot one of them the next time we're together.
posted 2 years ago by Meghan Asha
Be yourself! I wasn't able to do that and it kind of sucked, but that's my best advice.
This is great advice, Jeff, but my problem in college was I did NOT know myself yet. So my additional advice would be to spend some of that time in school figuring that out. :)
posted 2 years ago by Dorky
Jeff is right in saying that no matter where you are in life all you can offer is 'yourself." Grantend, you evolve with time and experience, but in college, it's best to be yourself instead of taking yourself down that winding road of peer pressure.
Then Dorky's sentiment applies. Who really knows themselves in college? So you just have to go with you for the time being and absorb all you can. Keep what you love, throw out the rest. You'll come out alive...I did :)
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