Meghan needs a dog

I have never seen anything want to be more like Sex in the City, and miss so so terribly. Really, you should at least act like you care what each other is saying, by listening to each other, and having some intelligent, meaningful conversations. Watch at 3:17 when the girl in the middle just stares at the camera as she takes a drink, not even listening to the Julia. She could care less. Another word of advice, use three mugs, not transparent bottles - that way views can't see the levels of the liquid go up and down, showing that this mess of a show was completely cut out of order with some lines taken out of context. and those dogs. really? they are so

Hi Girls, I'd suggest the best way to get over the jitters when on a date is to think to yourself "do I really like this guy? Is he making me happy? Is he as nervous as I am?" If you actually really truly like him then great. If he si working to make you happy (or at least meeting what you are putting into it) then great again. Finally, if he is not as nervous as you then he might not be worth it. Being nervous shows the other person you like them. If he does not seem as nervous then he may not be the person for you as you are not having the same effect on him as he has on you. And truly, if that is the case, he is probably not smart enough to see how great each of you is.

after just watching all of the shows and reading some of the comments (yikes) i have to say that i like this show (and nonsociety) and some of the people that are leaving comments have to get a life. some of you are just mean. this is a work in progress. i can tell there have been some changes since the first show. some of them good (very good) and some of them not so but, this is the early days...they are getting comfortable. give them a break. i know meghan (she dated a good friend of mine for 4 months. i am her biggest fan and miss her friendship dearly) and i do not think she is fake. (i hate when men say that) she is a woman that is working hard in a world where men put women down for having a voice. i say, girls-keep it up-have fun-work hard and don't listen to the jerks of the world-just do your thing. there are people out there that like what you are doing. the rest can find another site to look at if they don't like yours. the other thing i have to say is that i am happy to learn about that shop where i can rent a beautiful gown for a black tie event coming up in a couple of weeks. i don't want to buy one-just renting one so i might look half as beautiful as meghan did in hers. to end, i would love if you had spell check...being the worst speller in the world...any way to save face in this mean world.

rawr

You're taking a lot of criticism here (which is normal when you launch a new product), but I wanted to mention one thing that I think you are totally doing right. Replying to the comments that are left here that you have something to say in response to is totally engaging and interesting. And, in turn, it kept me reading the rest of the comments, wondering what you were going to say in response. Very smart. And congratulations on the launch. Getting a new product off the ground is a time-consuming pain in the butt. Hope it's been worth it, it's been fun watching.

I am really curious to know the nature of your endorsement deals because it seems to really be dragging down the transparency and authenticity of your show and your blog. Just a few minutes of reading and watching and it seems like you mention the same two or three businesses or products over and over again. You claim that you don't get paid to endorse these products yet you never say that you don't get in-kind services such as free products or free dress rentals. You should really be more honest and up front about that because when you don't you come across as a bunch of shills. Also, judging from your writing style, it's abundantly obvious that you or your interns are posting a lot of the positive and glowing "guest" comments. Try to disguise your writing at least a little bit, ladies.

Wow... Julia, did you just compare yourself to a famous actor who has like, actually done WORK for a living? What is your career? Oversharing? Blogging? You and about a million other people. You have aggressively tried to court attention and yet it does not seem like you can manage or cope with the backlash from the "assholes" who couldn't handle your "honesty." Sorry, but I think you have it all wrong. If you're going to put it all out there, expect not be liked by some. You can't have it both ways.

Such potential for this show! I am sure just about everyone reading theses comments would LOVE it if one of you replied to the comments, at least the more detailed comments, or at least one of the producers did so, either in the comments area - or, crazy thought - on the show - OMG it could be a *segment* on the show. How *smart* for a show with a web-based audience. Lord, I want credit for that idea if it manifests itself. Anyway, I personally am dying to know what your responses would be to these obviously well-crafted inquiries. You could gain such loyalty in your viewership.

Congratulations you guys! Great video.

I don't understand why you guys launched a totally new site .. why isn't this combined with nonsociety.com? Besides posting one video on the homepage. Now to check out what you guys are doing I have to visit two sites - sort of like when I had to visit all of your blogs before you combined them for nonsociety.com. Bleh. There isn't even a link to tmiweekly.com at the top of nonsociety.. kind of annoying! But nevertheless I've enjoyed watching these videos.

Hey, As your doppelganger, I was always hoping you'd succeed, Julia. But I gotta agree with Jen. Your blog has changed a lot--it's become way less personal. I generally don't have much of a problem with what folks label "fake" in girls; acting cheerier and friendlier than would be genuine is harmless and helps women balance privacy and an active social life. But your business is based on at least looking honest. Seeing all these party pics doesn't do it for me. Not that you have to spill dirt about your friends and boyfriends, but give me some real thoughts and feelings. I know that's asking a lot (not being sarcastic! It must be really hard to do in your situation), but it's the only way this company is going to work.

http://thebobbymiller.com/post/52669819/tmi OMFG. You guys should do it.

Unfortunately, the comments are true. This show is more about the girls and less about the audience. It's surprising since so much about TMI and NonSociety is based on good marketing. Yet, did you bother to do market research on your demographic? You've failed the number one rule in marketing... Know your target audience and provide products/services that adds value to their lives. If this is entertainment, then entertain us. This show is just about girls talking about themselves. Take a moment to relate to who is watching you and be less focused on one another. Give us something. I mean :15 seconds of the show is asking for our feedback. "Hey I've talked about myself for two and a half minutes now you help me by leaving comments for me. Don't forget. I need you to talk about me. Look right there. Below. Where it says comments." The next :15 seconds of the show is plugging the show. I get it. I can find you on any and all social network sites... MySpace. Facebook. Hula whatever. Etc. If I am watching you on here, then I'm not who you are supposed to plug your Social Network sites to. I have to also agree that as NonSociety girls who "live life differently." I just see girls living a very New York society lifestyle. You have such an opportunity to change the way people view Internet media and you are such a role model to 20/30 something females. Now get real and get informed. And do it. I know you can.

WHY ARE PEOPLE ABOVE ME COMMENTING SUCH RUDE THINGS ABOUT THESE WONDERFUl, INTELLIGENT, FUN, SOPHISTICATED LADIES?!?!?! dont you guys have better things to do than comment on other people's videos, which you took the time to watch, and then say unhelpful and plain mean comments... its the most immature thing i've seen

I can't imagine having to sit across a table and have drinks with either Julia or Mary. You're both simultaneously self-consumed and uninteresting it's tragic. Tell me again why I'd want to sit and listen to a a spin instructor posing as a fashionista and a "dating columnist" talk about their lives when their lives consist of sponging off peopel who actually DO work for a living? Meghan, save yourself.

you girls are cute! However, I sort of agree with the previous commenters about the dog stuff. I like the topics of all the webisodes so far though!

Sorry for the double post. I asked about this on your Ask a Question feature but haven't seen it posted there. Are you sponsored by the products you promote on this site (and in your vids) and if so, are you going to disclose that fact on your site? In other words, is your content driven, even in part, by promotions/ undisclosed ads? Also, I recall JA stating previously that the site was supposed to be centered around "personal growth" (a la the Oprah model)? Has the mission changed since the site was being promoted prior to and even in the early stages of its release?

No real comment on the content perhaps because I am too distracted by the dogs and blueprint cleanse bottles. I love your blogs, think you guys are awesome and intelligent but I'd really like to see the dogs go from the TMI Weekly segments and I realize you are most likely in the midst of a "cleanse" hence the blueprint bottles. However, why not put the drink in a coffee mug like the one Mary has? It's to distracting otherwise.

I don't have much dating experience (just a 5 year highschool/college relationship and several unsuccessful 1st dates), but if you're still nervous on the 8th date, maybe that's a good thing? It means you really like the person and you're not bored yet? -or- ...ZOMG, it's a bad thing because by the 8th date, you should be comfortable enough not to be nervous.

I guess you had to expect the trolls to come out, right? This is a tough format to get right but congrats on getting it rolling. I hope being intelligent, beautiful and ambitious won't threaten too many people away.

I have been a long time reader of Julia's blog.. not to mention rooting for you girls. But honestly, this is dissapointing. You all come across as very contrived and dis-genuine. You can tell this isn't real TMI. What Julia blogged about last year was REAL, heartfelt, put yourself out there TMI. That is admirable... this is just too fake. Way to "fake Hills". Ouch

It's more entertaining if you watch it without sound.

Be less fake. And, if you re being real, that's not good news for any of us.

Put the dogs down and set them free! They're dogs, stop carrying them around like purses.

My tip to calm those nerves, smoke as much weed as you possibly can, throw a couple drops of Visine in the old peepers ,and in not time he'll start to wonder how you got so cool.

What is that green juice? And how did you manage to drink it all!?