Text him...wtf?  What do you have to lose?  That's the problem with IM and text, the tone just doesn't come through the same.  Would he have really gone apeshit like that had you called him?  If the answer is yes, then politely text him saying "I'm sorry you feel this way. It is now obvious to me you are driven to the extreme by some psychological need to compensate where you feel you lack".  You could insert "stature" at the end if you choose.  Stature could be his height or something else upright while on his back :P

NO TEXT!!!

Are you kidding?
You're a grown woman and you are asking this question?
You sound like you are 12 years old and you've never dated.
I suggest you stop pretending to be stupid.
Have some pride. Use your intelligence (if you have any left)
Maybe all that hairspray & makeukp has dimmed your brain a bit.
You absolutely should not text someone who stands you up.
This is stupid programming.
Thanks for damaging the image of intelligent women everywhere. Thanks a lot.

You three are insufferable twits. I checked this site out today, but I won't be returning.

These videos could easily replace the Britney music the interrogators use at Guantanamo.  One minute of this pointless drivel and the prisoner would give up any info they had.   

No text!!

Play hard to get next time you hear from him or see him. Then don't ever be gotten!

Girls, You look great!!!!!!  This forum is going to be very successful!!!  Any negativity is welcome because those people are spending their precious time commenting.  If you weren't worth watching they wouldn't bother tuning in!!!!

NO TEXT! haha.. this show is awesome! Keep up the great work!

Comon now...Julia, you're way too smart for this! 

Most of us have outgrown the "should I respond to the dude who stood me up" debate in college, after all. 
Please don't give that moron the time of day.

As for the jerk who left you 37 messages((is this the same dude who stood YOU up, or what?)), he's obviously a crazed stalker with anger management issues. If he actually exists, that is. Yet another person who doesn't deserve anymore mention or attention.

Hopefully your next "dating webisode" will be deeper and more palpable than this one...and I say this with love, because I do like you gals!

So funny... my sister just went through the same exact experience just this past week (also in NYC) and I am going to give you the same advice I gave her -- Screw him --NO TEXT! I know how hard it is to bite your lip, or in this case to sit on your hands but do NOT give him the satisfaction of letting him know you care or that you were in any way phased by his complete rudeness! (even though you were!) Onwards and upwards my dear!! 

PS- what goes around comes around! He'll get his! 

U scare me, Julia.  You seem kinda turned on by Turd Boy.  The guy who pushes your buttons, makes you think you'll be the one to get thru to him. No one can show this guy anythng.  He's already thinks he's above the laws of common courtesy...think about it.

When you do see him again, and he realizes what a turd he was and pulls the old, "Hey, I want to make it up to you.  I'm taking you to dinner next week."  You can pause, pull out your blackberry, scroll through some dates (take an extra long time to do this) and then say, "Actually.....I think I'm having explosive diarrhea that week. Oh, and the next, too. Yeah. prob the week after that, even.  But you're right - you owe me dinner. I'll be in touch." 

Texts are on the sender's terms. You have to meet him on his terms (relax,its a game) and deliver him a roundhouse kick to the nutsack when he least expects it.  Make sure to film it & post here, too. 

HE WILL BE IN TOUCH.  YOUR JOB IS TO LIE IN WAIT.

Aren't YOU supposed the dating columnist/expert? 
The answer is clear. NO TEXT!!

Julia, you seem to be having this conflict and argument in the literal sense, and not figuratively for the sake of your viewers.  

You just publicly made your grief, so there's no need for the text now and thankfully your problem is solved.   

Please take this constructively, but the dogs communicate that this show is attention seeking, versus a medium to have a more evolving and sophisticated dialouge.  I guess I could be wrong, but I guess I had always figured your efforts were after the latter.

Just to clarify, the crazy guy who sent you the texts is different from the guy who stood you up, right?

If yes, then I'd say to text or email the guy who stood you up. Just maintain a classy distance--don't aggressively scold him or express further interest (which I assume you don't have, anyway). Concisely tell him that you were hurt and disappointed that he wasted your evening, that anyone deserves the consideration of advance notice, and that you were looking forward to meeting him because he seemed like an interesting person. Then add that it's too bad that he didn't feel the same way, because he sure did miss out.

First reaction: UGH. I hate hearing about women who waste time on men that are clearly not worth it, especially when they know it. DROP HIM. Forget you ever met him.

Then I thought, 37 messages. Really. I can't think of a situation that would warrant even 10 unanswered angry messages. Run fast, Julia. His issues run far deeper than poor date etiquette.

Can we please put this guy on the bat-crazy black list? I say IGNORE! 

NO TEXT! Why would you continue engaging with him? He's is not worth your precious time, Julia. I'm with Mary and Meghan. Majority rules on this one xD

Ok, this guy is a psycho and a retard. NO TEXT! Only action to take here is DELETE!!